Reminder..

A reminder from a fren to me..a reminder from me to myself n my beloved frens...Hope we'll be blessed!! =)


guys acting like gals

gals acting like guys

transparent hijab

no hijab

hijab that covers only the hair: but not ur neck/chest

hijab with short sleeves t-shirt on

figure hugging clothes

perfumes that attracts men

hugging, kissing, holding hands

cubit, tepuk tampar, piat

being on a motorbike

being in a vehicle in a dark or suspicious place

=all above wif a person not your hubby or wifey or lawful relatives in Islam


just cos it seems like 90% Muslim Malays in Malaysia are doing it, or the dramas on tv are showing it, or the fashion mags are strutting it...doesnt make it a right. The hadith that goes by stated that: Innal halaala bayyinun, wa innal haraama bayyinun. What is halal is clear. What is haram is clear.(cont) .

Now that you have read this. I can assure u that all the above is haram. Having said that, you therefore have no excuse to plead ignorance of what Allah has ordained. So now, it can be that u have tried, but didn't notice that ur hijab is transparent for example...or it can be just that u know it, but choose to ignore it.

The ball is in your hands. This is a reminder for me, and for you to remind me in case i forgot. If u think u can bear the heat of the fire in this world, then go ahead. But just remember how burning the Hell fire is. Million of times much greater the pain is.

You there. Yes, you. I know you want to change. You tried to change. But failed. It's just too hard. Your frens, relatives. Your mom, your dad, your bro. All making fun of ur new change. It seems like everyone is mocking u, and no one wants to support you. You are alone, against the whole world.

But think my dear, at the end of the day, when the Day of Judgement comes, people will scatter all over the Earth, trying to save their own lives. And each will be accountable for their own acts. At that time, it doesn't matter what other people think anymore. But u, sadly had forsaken ur attempt to change, because of what others say. Was it worth it? Is it worth committing sins, entering the scorching heat of the Hell just because it was an act that other people did in the world then. No.

All this long, we are acting like we are going to live in this world forever. We forget about the Day of Judgment, and the Eternal World. That this world is temporary and everything is a test.

Worst of all...here we are, admitting ourselves as Muslim. Claiming that we believe in God. and we love Him. But, sadly we cannot even change or attempt to change, to be a better Muslim. To make Him love us even more. To please the Creator. No..we rather please our frens, our families, all over Him. We plead ignorance. We care about what the society thinks, rather than what He thinks. So we do what others do. We choose the common wrong over what is right in the eyes of God. And we still dare to call ourselves Muslims. Shame on us.

Time is running out. Life is short. Try to change. God knows how hard is, but He also knows u tried. Stop being satisfied at ur level of change. Think of ways. Make Him be pleased of u. Make Him love u even more. Is it not the purpose of our creation?

-A reminder for self.a reminder for self.-

"O our Lord, we pray to you to open our hearts and guide us towards the right path. It is You who we worship and it is to You we seek help, protection and forgiveness. Indeed, we are easily weakened by the calls of the World. Let it not blind us, nor stop us from reaching for your Love and Blessings.Verily, You are the one who hears everything, the Creator, the Sustainer of the Earth. Guide us, ya Allah and do not leave us astray, for we are merely humans that easily succumbs to the foolishness of the heart. Amin ya Rabbal Alamin."

(Ameen..[-o<)

p/s : shame on me..

Wassalam.